Last time Jennifer Lopez She openly talks about how she enjoys being single and even claims that none of her former partners were "capable" of loving her.
In a recent interview, she also appeared to criticize her ex-husband, Ben Affleck , saying she should have stopped chasing relationships "earlier.".
Now sources claim that people close to Jennifer Lopez don't believe her talk about breaking up with the actor, and claim that the singer even wants to remain close to Ben Affleck.
A source claims Jennifer Lopez has made it her goal to show Ben Affleck what he's "missed.".
In several of her post-divorce interviews, Lopez emphasized how much better she feels now that she is no longer in a relationship.
The popular actress has made comments that have sometimes been perceived as a jab at her former partners, especially her recent ex-husband, Affleck.
However, according to a new report, no one close to Lopez believes she has actually gotten over her breakup with the Oscar winner.
«"To be clear, no one in J.Lo's circle believes the rumors that she's happy being single and completely over Ben," the insider said. Globe Magazine .
«"She's made it her mission to show him what he's lost and still harbors illusions that he'll ever come back to give her another chance," the source continued, adding, "The fact that she's still complaining about Ben and the aftermath of the divorce while he's completely silent and just trying to move on with his life speaks volumes.".
A source close to the couple also insisted that a reunion between the former lovers is "absolutely not happening" and Lopez needs to "get over it.".
The singer said that none of her former partners were "capable" of truly loving her.
Since her divorce, Lopez hasn't been shy about her personal life. In fact, she's made bold statements against her past affairs.
In a candid conversation with Howard Stern on his show, the 56-year-old singer appeared to take a jab at her ex-husband Ben Affleck, as well as virtually every man she's ever dated or married.
When asked if she had ever felt "truly loved," Lopez answered bluntly: "No.".
Then the singer clarified: "I realized it wasn't that I wasn't worthy of love—it was that they weren't capable of it... They just didn't have the strength! And they gave me what they had, right?"«
«"They gave me everything, every single time—every ring, everything I could ever want, right? Tried to give me houses, rings, marriage—all of that," she added, implying that they tried, but never truly loved her.
Jennifer Lopez says splitting from Ben Affleck was "the best decision.".
Reflecting on the end of her two-year marriage to Affleck, Lopez said it was "the best thing that ever happened to me.".
She explained that the breakup forced her into a period of deep introspection and self-healing, which went a long way in helping her rediscover herself.
«"It really set me on a whole journey," she told Stern. "I had a religious leader, a therapist, a family therapist, an individual therapist, and even a mentor who helped me understand my addiction. I had it all.".
Lopez added, "I told myself, 'I'm going to figure this out, no matter what it takes.'" The singer said the intense inner work led to a profound breakthrough, as she realized that "at the core of everything is you. It's no one else's fault.".
The singer claims that she is now more aware of herself.
Looking to the future, Lopez explained that over time, she has come to deeply value her own identity, which has made her feel much more confident.
She explained to Stern that she can now understand her life with much greater confidence and clarity. This includes reflecting on everything from her childhood relationship with her parents to her personal struggles with love and feelings of neglect, which ultimately allows her to truly understand and appreciate who she has become.
The singer said she now feels more "confident" and "self-aware," noting that the growth has given her a sense of peace.
Lopez said: "I feel very comfortable and good being myself, with all my strengths and weaknesses.".
Ben Affleck gave Jennifer Lopez his share of their jointly acquired property.
Although Lopez has commented on her divorce from Affleck on numerous occasions, the actor himself has rarely spoken about the split and once called discussing the topic "shameful.".
«"First of all, you start thinking, 'Obviously this person has these issues. Obviously they have these issues.' And the reason I don't want to share it is just a little awkward. It makes you feel vulnerable," he said. GQ magazine .
Despite the amicable divorce settlement, Affleck and Lopez remained in rumors over their Beverly Hills family home, for which they were unable to find a buyer after months on the market.
According to insiders, in an attempt to completely sever ties with his ex-wife, the actor gave Lopez his share of the property, making her the sole owner.
In an interview Star Magazine The source noted that the shocking move has caused Lopez to reconsider her divorce decision, as she "can't help but see it as proof that he's the good guy she fell in love with, and she's hopeful again that somehow they can work things out.".
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